Yes, I am guilty of calling life a bitch when we are put in adverse situations. As much as I like to think of myself to have been gone through tough times, I know for a fact that what I had to endure was nothing.
Life isn’t easy and there is no growth in anything that comes easy. Life is always trying to teach us to adapt, grow strong and train ourselves to face our demons head on. Sure, sometimes things get messy and you might say, “why me?” I’ve been there my dude and today I am a testimony. I wouldn’t refrain from stating that had I not been in those adverse situations, I wouldn’t have been here writing this article with a peaceful heart.
However, what I aim to bring to your perspective is that life does not come easy and everyone has to go through their hardships to reach their destiny. While life is hard, you are also given two choices – either you wallow and curse life for its nonsensical adversities or you grab your balls and face your demons head-on.
When you wallow and begin cursing life for what it is, you are fixating yourself to a loser mentality. This mentality prevents you from seeing beyond the adversities of life itself. It makes you complacent. It makes you a victim. It makes you want to give up. It prevents you from taking action, my dude. While on the other hand, you can choose to take the risk and challenge life itself. I understand that it can be painful, maybe you’ve lost a loved one, lost your business or got your heart broken, and I know how it feels, I have been there, man and I know how much it sucks.
You’ve got this one life, this one short life. There is no afterlife. I haven’t seen proofs of an afterlife and I am assuming that neither have you. So, why do you want to spend your life worrying about your adversities and calling life a bitch? Complaining is easier than taking action dude and once you start taking action, life plays along. Once you start taking action, you can see your life falling into place. You can keep complaining about life being a bitch until the day you die and there is nothing you are going to gain out of it. Your life is going to be meaningless, dude. I don’t want that to happen to any of us here.
You might have read stories or heard people on deathbed listing the things they wish they did when they were younger. It sounds sad dude and I don’t want you to be one of those people. Take action today! Do the things that your heart wants you to do. Don’t follow what others think is right for you. Do your own thing, walk your own path. Never regret anything. Adversities are parts of your life. Remember this, the more adversities you have in your life, the stronger you are going to emerge out of it.
Life will prepare you to face tougher challenges, and when you keep winning those challenges, people are going to draw inspiration from you and you are going to soar through life like an eagle.
That’s all I have to say with this small article, take action and see life’s reaction and embrace that bitch.